Multiplayer - unable to connect 0.12.30

[Vayda]

Hello, me and my friend are trying to play Factorio together, but we can not connect to each other. We tried port forwarding, we're using Evolve ( i can ping him there, so we're visible to each other ), nothing works. All we get is the "Unable to connect to the server" message. We're both using the same factorio version.
Also, when I try to connect to some other servers, what I get is i do connect to it, start downloading the map and after some time (1-2MB downloaded) the game crashes with the message Sendto didn't send all data.

Here's my logfile when i tried to connect to my friend through Evolve:

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    0.001 2016-04-24 21:55:15; Factorio 0.12.30 (Build 17998, win32, alpha)
   0.001 Operating system: Windows 7 Service Pack 1
   0.001 Program arguments: "D:\Factorio\bin\Win32\Factorio.exe" 
   0.001 Read data path: D:/Factorio/data
   0.001 Write data path: D:/Factorio
   0.001 Binaries path: D:/Factorio/bin
   0.019 Graphics options: [FullScreen: false] [VSync: true] [UIScale: 100%] [MultiSampling: OFF] [Graphics quality: normal] [Video memory usage: high] [Light scale: 20%] [Screen: 255]
   0.019 Available display adapters: 1
   0.019  [0]: \\.\DISPLAY1 - Intel(R) HD Graphics 4000 {0x05, [0,0], 1600x900, 32bit, 60Hz}
   0.019 Create display on adapter 0. Size 1280x720 at position [150, 72].
   0.563 Initialised Direct3D:[0] Intel(R) HD Graphics 4000; driver: nvumdshim.dll 10.18.13.5330
   0.597 Desktop composition is active.
   0.677 Loading mod core 0.0.0 (data.lua)
   0.680 Loading mod base 0.12.30 (data.lua)
   0.772 Checksum for core: 3711505753
   0.772 Checksum for mod base: 2829195351
   1.330 Initial atlas bitmap size is 16384
   1.334 Created atlas bitmap 16384x5509
  11.965 Sprites loaded
  12.081 Loading sounds...
  14.120 Factorio initialised
  21.033 Info Router.cpp:509: Router peerID(65535) shutting down.
  21.052 Info Router.cpp:536: Router state -> Disconnected
  21.052 Joining game 10.210.18.2:34197 at port 34197
  21.052 Info WindowsUDPSocket.cpp:73: Opening socket at port (34197)
  21.057 Info Router.cpp:536: Router state -> Connecting
  21.058 Info MultiplayerManager.cpp:913: networkTick(0) mapTick(-1) changing state from(Ready) to(Connecting)
  22.570 Error MultiplayerManager.cpp:110: MultiplayerManager failed: multiplayer.not-received-connection-accept-reply
  22.570 Info MultiplayerManager.cpp:913: networkTick(0) mapTick(-1) changing state from(Connecting) to(InitializationFailed)
  24.755 Info MultiplayerManager.cpp:161: NetworkTick(0) quitting multiplayer connection.
  24.755 Info MultiplayerManager.cpp:913: networkTick(0) mapTick(-1) changing state from(InitializationFailed) to(Disconnected)
  24.755 Info Router.cpp:509: Router peerID(65535) shutting down.
  25.058 Info WindowsUDPSocket.cpp:160: Socket closed
  25.058 Info Router.cpp:536: Router state -> Disconnected