1. I cannot see a way to copy a station order rule set and it seems like it should be an easy addition. I know you can copy an entire set by copy and pasting the ship hub but that's a bit too much.
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Answered - I was indeed missing something - you can hold the mouse down on the striped area which lets you drag the station/planet destination about.
3. Ability to stop a ship from off loading specific goods. A blanket - don't unload at this station/planet affects all items. A workaround I've found is that you can order the same item back from the planet but you have to do this on any planet you visit. (AFAIK). Why? As an example - So that you can keep say 100 barrels on nuclear fuel in the ship cargo for the ship itself.
4. On ships specifically it would be nice to have a feature where you can prioritise a ship build (for example) over the planet supplying goods. currently it seems that supply ships get the priority. Obviously you can stop the ships arriving or clear their orders but then you have to restart it all. To come extent priorities would be a great addition to the bot network as far as I'm concerned!
5. Ability to request goods from a specific ship. This is another request that you can kind of workaround but a good QOL feature as far as I'm concerned.