Took me a while before i could test this.
I redid the whole port opening thing again,
and payed good attention while opening the safe file,
to be absolutely sure it was multiplayer.
Maybe it was that silly thing or something else
But it´s working again
Hooray!!

Hey guys and gals. Love the game!!!
Now I started playing with a good friend and we had loads of fun.
If I load that multiplayer game my friend can seem to join. (no connection with the server)
He is able to join a new multiplayer game but not the saved ones.
If we start a new one, save it, we are ...