Multiplayer-server-connection-issue

[Cryst]

Hello everyone.
Me and my Friend got some issue about getting disconnected from our Headless Factorio Server.
The Server is Hosted by ZAP-Hosting is running the latest 0.17.experimental patch and we use a password to ensure our 2-man privacy.

We use following mods:
Merged Chests
Ore Eraser
All up to date.

The Core Problem is if i join our server i get disconnected thanks to losing connection to the server but while i get a connection error message the server tells me "Player X disconnected" like disconnected on my own.
At the same time my friend losses connection too with the same message client and server wise.

Here is some logs:
0.001 2019-04-20 13:03:30; Factorio 0.17.32 (build 44530, win64, steam)
0.001 Operating system: Windows 10 (version 1803)
0.001 Program arguments: "L:\SteamLibrary\steamapps\common\Factorio\bin\x64\Factorio.exe"
0.001 Read data path: L:/SteamLibrary/steamapps/common/Factorio/data
0.001 Write data path: C:/Users/marco/AppData/Roaming/Factorio [62509/237907MB]
0.002 Binaries path: L:/SteamLibrary/steamapps/common/Factorio/bin
0.034 System info: [CPU: Intel(R) Core(TM) i7-4820K CPU @ 3.70GHz, 8 cores, RAM: 4837/16303 MB, page: 8191/18735 MB, virtual: 4332/134217727 MB, extended virtual: 0 MB]
0.034 Display options: [FullScreen: 1] [VSync: 1] [UIScale: automatic (100.0%)] [Native DPI: 1] [Screen: 255] [Special: 00] [Lang: de]
0.043 Available displays: 2
0.043 [0]: \\.\DISPLAY1 - NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1060 6GB {0x05, [0,0], 1920x1080, 32bit, 60Hz}
0.044 [4]: \\.\DISPLAY5 - NVIDIA GeForce GT 730 {0x01, [1920,0], 1440x900, 32bit, 60Hz}
0.775 [Direct3D11] Display: 0, Output: 0, DisplayAdapter: 0, RenderingAdapter: 0; d3dcompiler_47.dll
0.934 Initialised Direct3D[0]: NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1060 6GB; id: 10de-1c03; driver: nvldumdx.dll 23.21.13.9135
0.934 D3D Feature Level: 11.1, DXGI 1.5+, SwapChain: 1,discard,-,-,none
0.934 [Local Video Memory] Budget: 5144MB, CurrentUsage: 1MB, Reservation: 0/2723MB
0.934 [Non-Local Vid.Mem.] Budget: 7336MB, CurrentUsage: 0MB, Reservation: 0/3872MB
0.934 Tiled resources: Tier 2
0.934 Unified Memory Architecture: No
0.934 BGR 565 Supported: Yes
0.934 MaximumFrameLatency: 3, GPUThreadPriority: 0
1.000 Desktop composition is active.
1.000 Graphics settings preset: very-high
1.000 Dedicated video memory size 6052 MB
1.000 Graphics options: [Graphics quality: high] [Video memory usage: all] [Light scale: 100%] [DXT: high-quality]
1.000 [Max load threads: 32] [Max texture size: 0] [Tex.Stream.: 0] [Rotation quality: normal] [Color: 32bit]
1.120 DSound: Starting _dsound_update thread
1.120 DSound: Enter _dsound_update; tid=8992
1.477 Loading mod settings WideChests 2.1.2 (settings.lua)
1.487 Loading mod core 0.0.0 (data.lua)
1.681 Loading mod base 0.17.32 (data.lua)
2.576 Loading mod ore-eraser 1.4.3 (data.lua)
2.713 Loading mod base 0.17.32 (data-updates.lua)
2.830 Loading mod WideChests 2.1.2 (data-updates.lua)
4.852 Checksum for core: 161597740
4.852 Checksum of base: 3343873766
4.852 Checksum of ore-eraser: 3500431690
4.852 Checksum of WideChests: 1747782738
6.317 Loading sounds...
8.565 Info PlayerData.cpp:69: Local player-data.json unavailable
8.565 Info PlayerData.cpp:72: Cloud player-data.json available, timestamp 1555660498
8.859 Initial atlas bitmap size is 16384
8.904 Created atlas bitmap 16384x16352 [none]
8.910 Created atlas bitmap 16384x11316 [none]
8.910 Created atlas bitmap 8192x3872 [decal]
8.912 Created atlas bitmap 16384x3808 [low-object]
8.912 Created atlas bitmap 2048x192 [icon-background, not-compressed, linear-minification, linear-magnification, linear-mip-level, , no-crop, no-scale]
8.913 Created atlas bitmap 8192x3472 [mipmap, linear-minification, linear-magnification, linear-mip-level]
8.915 Created atlas bitmap 16384x6880 [terrain, mipmap, linear-minification, linear-mip-level, no-crop]
8.915 Created atlas bitmap 4096x1600 [smoke, mipmap, linear-minification, linear-magnification]
8.916 Created atlas bitmap 4096x1392 [not-compressed, mipmap, linear-minification, linear-magnification, linear-mip-level, no-crop, no-scale]
8.917 Created atlas bitmap 8192x1496 [alpha-mask]
8.920 Created atlas bitmap 16384x12660 [shadow, linear-magnification, alpha-mask]
8.921 Created atlas bitmap 8192x2336 [shadow, mipmap, linear-magnification, alpha-mask]
8.930 Texture processor created. GPU accelerated compression Supported: yes, Enabled: yes/yes. Test passed. YCoCgDXT PSNR: 35.83, BC3 PSNR: 33.82
12.840 Parallel Sprite Loader initialized (threads: 7)
23.665 Sprites loaded
23.732 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 16384x3808
23.754 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 8192x3472
23.776 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 16384x6880
23.787 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 4096x1600
23.798 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 4096x1392
23.809 Generated mipmaps for atlas of size 8192x2336
23.824 Custom inputs active: 6
23.934 Factorio initialised
23.936 Game is running on selected version branch on Steam.
27.952 Joining game IP ADDR:({134.255.225.12:34300})
27.952 Info UDPSocket.cpp:33: Opening socket
27.953 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(Ready) to(Connecting)
28.042 Connection refused
28.042 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:189: Quitting multiplayer connection.
28.042 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(Connecting) to(Disconnected)
28.045 Info UDPSocket.cpp:210: Closing socket
28.045 Info UDPSocket.cpp:240: Socket closed
32.995 Joining game IP ADDR:({134.255.225.12:34300})
32.995 Info UDPSocket.cpp:33: Opening socket
32.996 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(Ready) to(Connecting)
33.076 Info ClientSynchronizer.cpp:35: Initialized Synchronizer local peer(1) latency(32).
33.076 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(Connecting) to(ConnectedWaitingForMap)
33.076 Info ClientRouter.cpp:224: ConnectionAccepted
34.842 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:748: Received mapReadyForDownload
34.842 Downloading file C:\Users\marco\AppData\Roaming\Factorio\temp\mp-download.zip (25044221 B, 49790 blocks)
34.868 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(ConnectedWaitingForMap) to(ConnectedDownloadingMap)
39.821 Finished download (4 s, 25.0 MB, 5.0 MB/s)
39.908 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:728: updateTick(4294967295) map download finished creating scenario
39.908 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(4294967295) changing state from(ConnectedDownloadingMap) to(ConnectedLoadingMap)
39.908 Loading map C:\Users\marco\AppData\Roaming\Factorio\temp\mp-download.zip: 25044221 bytes.
40.176 Loading level.dat: 54029288 bytes.
40.183 Info Scenario.cpp:161: Map version 0.17.32-1
41.600 Loading script.dat: 414 bytes.
41.616 Checksum for script C:/Users/marco/AppData/Roaming/Factorio/temp/currently-playing/control.lua: 1848333929
41.618 Checksum for script __ore-eraser__/control.lua: 2593320060
41.620 Checksum for script __WideChests__/control.lua: 83376244
41.645 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(8155815) changing state from(ConnectedLoadingMap) to(TryingToCatchUp)
41.856 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(8155928) changing state from(TryingToCatchUp) to(WaitingForCommandToStartSendingTickClosures)
41.942 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(8155928) changing state from(WaitingForCommandToStartSendingTickClosures) to(InGame)
41.992 Info GameActionHandler.cpp:4040: UpdateTick (8155931) processed PlayerJoinGame peerID(6) playerIndex(1) mode(connect)
137.176 Error ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:96: MultiplayerManager failed: "Du hast die Verbindung zum Spiel verloren."
137.176 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(8161643) changing state from(InGame) to(WaitingForUserToSaveOrQuitAfterServerLeft)
137.176 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:886: Disconnect notification for peer (6)
140.478 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:189: Quitting multiplayer connection.
140.478 Info ClientMultiplayerManager.cpp:575: UpdateTick(8161643) changing state from(WaitingForUserToSaveOrQuitAfterServerLeft) to(Disconnected)
140.758 Info UDPSocket.cpp:210: Closing socket
140.758 Info UDPSocket.cpp:240: Socket closed

We allready tried alot of different things reinstalled the server multiple times and checked the port maping too.
It doesnt seem like others got this issue either so my last resort is posting this stuff here hope somebody can help.

[Lamasul]

Bumping this topic as the problem still exists.

Additional Information: After we both get kicked from the server we aer unable to reconnect to the server immediately. We need to wait around 10 to 15 mins before the server accepts connections again.

Getting the impression that it may be a hoster problem, but not to sure about it.