I have just posted a Vanilla suggestion, but since it's also kinda a mod request, i want to post it here as well:
viewtopic.php?f=6&p=589635#p589635
I'm trying my best to come up with a mod myself, but my time is very limited atm and i'd love if anyone would feel inspired by my request and comes up with a solution before me. Or maybe there are already mods which solve this and i just didn't find them yet?
Thx for reading and big thanks to anyone who wants to help