This mean what i should give mod settings file with all changes to my friends and start new game?

Run two versions of the game on different computers with absolutely same modpack, not LAN, on version 0.17.64 was launched.

Of course i can, because i was host

Tried to run 5-10 mods at a time. Everything worked. When we run around more than half of the mods, we catch desync.
Mod pack and desync report: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1NE90_ ... TJ6dMMxmDo
The desync-report was made at all enabled mods.