i tried to do what Dalestan proposed and it seems that it was fixed, it was a mod who wasnt loading properly (only smelting 0.1.7), but the crash that i reported seems from loading Factorio Via Gforce Experience, because loading from Steam doesnt do that, and before that the game was only stuck ...

Hello, first time here on forum, so not so sure if im doing it right or not. lets go to the problem, i came back with a friend to play the game after some time, and i tried to load it after like 1 year of being inactive, with a lot of mods in it. it never moved from 40% after like 1 hour of waiting ...