Disabling the Mining Drones Mod stopped the desync, thank you for the quick reply.

desyncs started happening after 50+ hours into a multiplayer save, sometimes happen when joining but usually happen after being connected for a few minutes or on auto saves.
mod list: https://drive.google.com/file/d/11fzwoUkTMPqKcWis1YdnZi1N4iPrbWdw/view?usp=sharing

Desync file: https://drive ...