Deadlock989 wrote: Fri Jan 15, 2021 10:56 pm
Koub wrote: Fri Jan 15, 2021 10:49 pm
I have the impression that, on the contrary, the more privileged, the more people get easily offended. People who struggle to survive have other priorities than being offended I think.
I think that's total bollocks personally. I think people who tell other people it's their fault if they're offended by slurs and insults like "mong", "faggot" and "nigger" are little more than playground bullies. Telling them they could be happier if they didn't take the abuse personally is even worse. "Can't you take a joke?" is the eternal call of the bully.
"Retarded" is a foul word in my local variety of English. It seems less taboo in the States, but, they use the word "handicapped" which became less acceptable here as far back as the 1970-80s. Still, what do you expect from a country run by people who openly espouse fascism.
Those are just words. There is nothing inherently good or bad about them. Many used to BE medical terminology at one point or another.
What you're conflating here is how people assign meaning to those words, which how those words get empowered that way. This has parallels to an argument I had the other day about how "expanding the block list size" has somehow become a reoccurring topic the hand full of MMOs I've been playing over the past couple years. In years prior, I had NEVER once seen this being a legit concern, seeing as how much effort is required to fill up 100-150 entries of people you don't like.
Its also kind of concerning how cynical "corporate" responses to issues are becoming aligned with how players believe problems should be "addressed".... considering such "actions" ultimately never do any good, nor make any real change, yet everyone pats themselves on the back for resolving it. Because rather then addressing the root cause, we're mostly just finding more elaborate ways to distance ourselves from the symptoms while claiming credit for being more progressive. And if any of those words I just used caused you to be upset, that is a shining example how we got into this state in the first place.
If you, for the sake of argument, want to ignore all the rest of the surrounding context, and focus primarily on the language aspects- Definitions can become more accurate over time, and supersede its more vague predecessors. Hence how Autism became a word, and over time we're realizing its still not accurate enough to describe the many variations under the term. But then some asshole started using it to insult people, and now this legit medical term is morphed into an slur. And by reacting strongly, and treating it like a slur, we've let that asshole take control of the word and empowering it for his agenda. As more words get black listed, other words are co-opted to fill in the meaning or usage, which in turn gets those black listed, and so and so on.... until we're just inventing new words to serve those functions. And its not like those new words won't get black listed eventually either.
And we could realistically stop this cycle, if we just addressed the fact that these people are assholes. Which gets even more fun in the US when you start realizing Americans don't actually understand the 1st Amendment (Free Speech), despite the fact they run around yelling it all the time. And it continues to happen because, again, everyone else doesn't understand it either, and fall victim to the same assumptions.
And to cap off this bit of social commentary...... this desire for shared ignorance is whats enabling the entire system to get caught up in its own feedback loop. If I call you a Shazbot, which is very clearly an insult by inflection, only around 6-8 people here may actually know what it means. So is it really an insult, and becoming offended, if you don't know the concept I'm inferring upon you by using that word?
