ssilk wrote:Nice trick.
Ok, if you don't see what I mean: if I answer
yes, then you have an argument against me: I believe in something, which can be found easily an argument against. If I say
no, also: I say like so, but don't believe in it...
Again, I;m confused about what your actually trying to say here, and honestly, I'm not trying to "trick" you, I'm not asking you if YOU have opinions on those issues, I'm asking you if you actually believe there are objective solutions to these questions or if you believe there are no objective answers to those questions at all.
ssilk wrote:If I say nothing, it's the best for me (and you).
But well, let's play this game further:
If I answer some meta like this, well, then we perhaps have a chance to come forward...
I don't seek to ask "meta" questions, I am trying to point out that lack of discussion, the way you think it is better not to discuss, not to seek answers, is harmful to the efforts of finding of those solutions.
ssilk wrote:Well, this is a small line you go here. There are not answers out there, waiting for to be found.
First sentence i don't understand your meaning, second sentence, at least you have finally taken a position, even if it is the position that there are no solutions to be found. I disagree, but at least I can understand you thinking this.
ssilk wrote:Indeed, there is the science, which can answer things definitely, but will they ever find an answer what love is?
About science, Science did not prove democracy is better than living under a king. It is not something science can prove. But you and I still know the answer to which is better, democracy or dictatorship. Science never PROVED that slavery is wrong, but you better know it is ssilk. You can try to fight the democracy example and argue the "devil's advocate" and say maybe dictatorship is better for the dictator and his family, or say that some democracies have done atrocities, but if you do this you are trying very hard not to make the SIMPLE admission that democracy is objectively preferable to dictatorship. No science involved, just a question answered by discussion and logic without having to be PROVEN in the scientific sense.
ssilk wrote:Ask anyone: do you know, what love is? I think most people say yes. And you will get as many different answers as people. But will science ever be able to answer that question? I mean the "This is the answer about what love is"-answer.
I think to some point yes (chemicals, reactions in the brain...), but not above.
This is a stupid question. Many questions can be asked, but not every question deserves an answer. I can ask the question "What is the purpose of a mountain?"
You could try and answer the question by talking about the geological powers that cause mountains to be formed, you could answer by talking about how mountain affect the water cycle how they affect wildlife etc etc, you could try to answer the question by saying mountains are an abstract idea that simply expresses a high point in geography.
All of these answers are equally valid, but the question, the question is what is absolutely absurd and simply stupid to pose. That question is not worth thinking on, it is not worth answering, it is a nonsensical question, even though it might sound like an intelligent question to some, we can objectively say, this is a not a "question" this is a logical fallacy in question form.
Back to your nonsensical question, "WHAT IS LOVE?". Another stupidly posed, unanswerable question. The reason this question is not answerable isn't because there is no answer at all, like with questions based on opinion or viewpoint ("Does this apple taste good?"), but the question is unanswerable because it is nonsensical. First off, Romans and Greeks had a better handle of the word love. They separated love into different categories. One word meant spiritual love, one word was love inside a family between family members, one was romantic love like between husband and wife. (Full Listing:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_words_for_love ) If you dont even bother chopping up the word love into parts, OF COURSE it is impossible to answer what it is or even define it. Brotherly love is OF COURSE not the same as romantic love or the love between soldiers who fight on a battlefield or a person's love for god. If you lump all these different definitions into one, then well no-duh you are going to have confused answers about what love is. Once you have a specific definition, it becomes easier to answer question ABOUT love, but the question WHAT IS LOVE is still nonsensical. You yourself started to answer questions ABOUT the topic of what love is when you mentioned chemicals and such, but you could also say that love is necessary to bind humans together into families, this is one thing that is evolutionarily positive that many mammals exhibit in a "loving" way. My cat sometimes snuggles on my leg and "loves" me, is this really some undefinable, unknowable concept in your mind? See how you and I have both started making a list of answers that are all good answers, but stem from a silly question that is completely nonsensical and unanswerable? just like the "What is the purpose of the mountain" question. If i tweak your question to "Where does love come from?" everyone would agree that the answer has something to do with the brain. You might cite evolution or chemicals or something like that, but again, this is due to FLAWS (not being specific enough) in the question, not in the answer or the ability of a person to produce answers.
ssilk wrote:And you forget, how big the world is, how many people live on it, and how many different interests are in it. And the interests have interests of interests, good or bad, who knows? The way to come to some kind of common conclusion is - that's my opinion - definitely NOT to say "things are obviously like so and so and therefore we need to make it so and so". The way I prefer meanwhile is to learn things and then find a way to show them my view (which is the most difficult part). And then we are at a point, where we can discuss.
Again, i cite democracy being preferable over kingship. All the different interests, all the different types of people, and we all agree on all of these different things that are impossible to deny. Slavery is wrong, almost all humans on earth have begun to agree with this statement, did science ever prove slavery is wrong? Nope. It's just wrong, and we can all explain why, even without scientific proof. This is the glory of the exchange of ideas between human beings, each human is like one single brain cell in a large "god-brain" that sometimes makes up its mind on issues and comes to conclusions.
ssilk wrote:In other words: I don't like, if someone comes and tells me, how to think about something, cause that leads always to such problems, like those unsolvable questions.
So you wouldn't ever tell a person to stop being racist. You'd respect a person's right to think that woman are subhuman and do not deserve respect? If most people on the globe wanted to suddenly believe the earth was flat you wouldn't try to persuade them otherwise? You wouldn't ever tell another person that the violence they are committing, or the harsh ignorant words they are saying needs to stop? I don't believe you, swedish or not, I think you stand up for the things you KNOW are right.
You are exactly right about issues of OPINION, but I think you and I think very different of what we think are issues of opinion, and what issues have definite answers, (even if those definite answers are unknown). I assert that many of the questions from your earlier post have DEFINITE ANSWERS but we need to discuss them ALOT before we get to the answer. Too many people AVOID talking about those issues because they really do believe that these issues are either issues of opinion or that it is impossible to figure out the answer. I disagree with both, answers exist, AND they can be found with something as simple as ALOT of informed discussion. It isn't a matter of telling someone else what to think, it's a matter of letting my opinion brush up against your opinion and both becoming "polished" until we both reach the apex, the conclusion, the agreement, the undeniable, the ANSWERS.
ssilk wrote:Child's don't mind that. They aren't told (too much) about how to think. If we can stop sometimes that learned kind of thinking, that could help.
I agree, NEVER let yourself be told anything. Form your own conclusions, but I implore you ssilk, use many hours of discussion with other human beings to inform your decisions and make your opinions BETTER. Understanding the BEST POINTS of the people that completely disagree with you will help you understand where and why you form an ideological difference with those people. Even if you disagree, both sides can "sharpen their fangs" as it were thru discussion and develop their opposing purposed answers to these questions.
To avoid having the discussion, whatever your reasoning is, is to choose ignorance.